I often hear a sentence:

the most beautiful scenery in life is the calmness and calmness of the heart.

in life, you always have to experience some joys and sorrows, and human feelings are cold and warm.

whether it is the regret that cannot be made up, or the feelings that cannot be given up, or the burden that cannot be unloaded, instead of being entangled in the heart, it is better to try to look down on and look down upon it.

the following 20 sentences are shared with you, hoping that in unhappy days, you will suddenly be enlightened and freed from your troubles.

01

when I cry when I have no shoes,

only to find that someone has no feet.

what others have may be what we dream of;

what we have may also be unmatched by others.

while you envy others, in fact, others also envy you.

Don't always focus on your own bad cards, and not all the cards in others' hands are good cards.

02

even if life gives you chicken feathers,

you should also try to tie it into a beautiful feather duster.

there is only one life, no matter how you spend it, there is not enough time.

Don't invite too many unpleasant people and things into your life.

throw away the things you don't like, and block the people you hate.

pick up the mood and live a bright life, and life will become bright.

03

if you only eat three loaves of bread,

so all your efforts for the fourth bread,

are stupid.

We feel unhappy and unfree, often because we have too many desires and too much burden.

people's ability is limited, no matter what they do, do not exceed their ability.

if you want to be relaxed and free, you must know how to break up and learn to subtract from an overloaded life.

04

Don't take yourself too seriously,

the earth will go round without you.

in the adult world, everyone is busy with his own business and has no time to pay attention to the details of others.

the coldest thing in the world is the hearts of the people. don't overestimate your position in the hearts of others.

to guard against arrogance and rashness, neither humble nor arrogant is the best way of life.

05

people are double-labeled,

be tolerant of the strong and hard on the weak.

when you are weak, anyone can step on you; only when you become strong, others will not underestimate you.

Don't complain about injustice. It is the norm in this society to hold the high and trample on the low.

No one will admire a weak person. If you want to survive better, you have to make yourself strong step by step.

06

instead of saying that others make you miserable,

let's say you don't have enough self-cultivation.

the more you care about the pain in life, the more insignificant it is.

is like a handful of salt in your hand. Putting it in a small bowl full of water is not the same as putting it in a large pot full of water.

the larger the container, the smaller the salinity; the smaller the container, the greater the salinity.

07

No man or woman is worth your tears,

the one who is, won't make you cry.

those who care about you are not willing to make you cry, while those who are willing to make you cry may not care so much about you at all.

your tears are so precious that you would rather raise your head and let them flow back than waste it on someone who is not worth it.

08

people who understand you will naturally understand, but if they don't, then let them go.

you can't satisfy everyone.

people living in different circles naturally have different cognition.

Don't try to please everyone, let alone frame your life by other people's standards.

Life is your own, don't get lost in other people's mouths, try your best to be yourself, that's enough!

09

there are two people looking out through the bars,

what one sees is mud all over the ground.

another man saw stars all over the sky.

the so-called context is born from the heart, the same thing, different perspectives will have different results.

for example, when the sun sets in the west, some people see the sun set, while others see the stars rise.

there is never an absolute failure in life. If you think about it from another angle, it may be a turn for the better.

10

there is nothing that can't be solved by sleep.

if there is, it is sleep again.

A good sleep is the cure for life.

Prepare yourself to look stunning in our gorgeous light in the box evening gowns at your next party. Start the most wonderful shopping experience from the comfort of your home.

as Turgenev said: sleep is like a cool spray that cleans up everything in your mind.

if you think life is too difficult, get a good night's sleep, forgive everything before going to bed, and wake up without asking about the past.

11

if you are bitten by a mad dog,

are you going to lie down and bite it?

there is right and wrong every day, regardless of nature, for those who have no quality, laugh at it and stay away from them.

different ways do not conspire against each other, not everyone is worthy to be your opponent.

Don't be like "garbage", or you won't know who "garbage" is at the end of the day.

12

anger will rebound,

one hurts the body, the other hurts the feelings.

the loss outweighs the gain by punishing yourself for other people's mistakes.

I am so angry that I suffer; if I hurt my feelings, I bear it by myself.

if you love yourself, don't be hard on yourself.

learn to be patient and give way to everything first, which not only protects yourself, but also shows magnanimity, and everyone is happy.

13

whether you are in a good or bad mood,

you can't change what has happened.

the past has happened, no matter what, there is no way to go back.

the only thing we need to do is not to let bad emotions influence the rest of our lives.

sadness is a day, happiness is also a day, do not embarrass yourself, you will have a good life.

14

the bad thing is never marriage,

but people.

it is said that marriage is the grave of love, but in fact, it is just marriage that makes us see each other clearly.

the so-called wrong marriage is just loving the wrong person, or maybe it was a mistake in the first place.

it is up to you to decide whether to make do in the marriage or stop the loss in time.

15

if the one who loves you never shows up, keep waiting.

because waiting itself is a part of love.

emotional problems, the most afraid of overnight, do not choose to make do because of the urging of others.

you have to believe that the person who really loves you will show up sooner or later, maybe he will be late, but he will not be absent.

what is it after a long wait for him?

16

it's a good thing for others to lend you money, whether to return it or not.

also, let you have the happiness you have lost and regained;

if you don't return it, it will make you recognize a person clearly.

some people say that borrowing money is the best way to test a relationship.

if you have already lent the money, don't rush to ask for it.

instead of struggling, wait slowly, for time will tell you everything.

17

if you feel pain in educating your child,

that must be the wrong way.

every child is unique. Don't put your child in the template of education.

applies to other people's children, not necessarily yours.

the meaning of education is not to teach our children what we want them to be, but to make them live the way we want them to be.

18

at night, the darker it is,

the nearer the dawn.

just before dawn, the starlight in the sky disappeared, and it was the darkest moment of the night.

however, after this moment has passed, it is the dawn of dawn.

the same is true of life. As long as you get through the darkness before dawn, everything will be all right.

19

there is no need to be perfect,

it takes a gap in life for the sun to shine in.

Life, there is no perfect to speak of, always accompanied by pain, with irreparable imperfections, into cracks in life.

these cracks are not only the scars of time, but also the witness of growth.

the sun is scattered from here, the warm is the past, and the illuminating is the front.

20

when you are alive, you sometimes laugh at others.

sometimes give people a smile.

each of us likes to find comfort and joy in the mistakes of others.

this kind of schadenfreude is both ridiculous and lovely.

if you can't quit it, just accept it and take it easy. It's no big deal.

as long as it doesn't run out and do evil.

years are in a hurry, the world is boundless, at the ferry of time, you and I are both passers-by.

No matter at any stage of life, there is a mission to be accomplished at that stage, no matter how painful or unbearable, it will become a thing of the past with the passage of time.

so, no matter what, don't take it to heart. The important thing is to settle down.

I hope that after reading the article, you can keep your inner calm and calm in the future, not afraid of the future, do not think about the past.

enjoy the moment, live up to the years, live up to yourself.

encourage each other!